My Cinderella
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MANILA · FOR WOMEN AND MEN WHO MEAN IT

He can't ask.
She can't say.

Long-term, or getting to know each other first?

My Cinderella is a members' site for women working at KTVs in Manila, and for men who want to know someone beyond the table. You both see what the other is hoping for, before you meet.

For verified members aged 18 and over only

WHY

Same table. Different hopes.

For him

She messages every day: "Miss you. Come see me again." It feels good.

But is it real, or is it work?

Ask, and it's awkward. Don't ask, and you never know.

For her

You mean it, and he laughs: "You say that to everyone."

Some nights you want someone real. But at work, your job is to smile.

Some women want a long-term partner. Some want to talk first and see. Some simply enjoy their guests at work.

But at the table, every smile looks the same.

Nobody did anything wrong.
You just couldn't see what the other person wanted.

HOW IT SOLVES

So she says it first.

When she joins, she writes what she's actually looking for, in her own words.

Profile
Relationship
"Long-term" / "Get to know each other first"
Marriage
"Open to marriage" / "A relationship, not marriage"
How often to meet
How many times a week she'd like to meet
Work, once dating
Keep working / stop
Living together
Whether she'd like to live together
Current status
Single, dating, or married
Thoughts on financial support
Her monthly hopes

It goes both ways: his marital status (single, dating, or married) is shown to her, too.

"Anyone can just write 'long-term,' right?"

  • She can update her answers anytime, and the men she's been talking with can see the history.
  • If he's planning to meet her, or arranging to, he's notified of any change.
  • After meeting, both leave quick feedback, and our team reviews it.

Honest answers are what make a profile worth trusting.

WHAT CHANGES

What changes when you can see it.

For her

  • No more proving you're serious, over and over.
  • Men reach out already knowing what you want.
  • Write "let's talk first," and that's where things start.
  • Whether to meet, and whether to date, is always your call.

For him

  • Know whether she wants what you want, before you meet.
  • Ready for something long-term, or want to take it slow? You start on the same page.
  • Fewer nights of hoping, guessing, and going home unsure.

FEATURES

No surprises when you meet.

Three unedited photos

Full-length, waist-up, chest-up. What you see is who you meet.

Four languages, auto-translated

English, 日本語, 한국어, 中文. Every message shows the translation and the original.

Free Now

She posts "I'm free to talk tonight." He can reply "On my way" in one tap.

Everyone is verified

ID and a selfie for every member, man or woman. 18+ only.

No workplace names

No workplace names or signs, in photos or on profiles. She decides who she tells.

Contacts stay between you

We never hold your LINE, WhatsApp or Viber. Swapping contacts is up to the two of you.

Joining never obliges you to meet anyone. If anyone asks you for money or sex, tell us.

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HOW TO START

How it works

For women

Free to join.

  1. 1Verify your ID and add your photos
  2. 2Write what you're really looking for
  3. 3Read your messages, and decide for yourself whether to meet
Join free ›

For men

FreeMembership
See profiles and what each woman wants○○
See "Free Now" posts○○
Visit her at her workplace○○
Messages with built-in translation—○
Plan to meet outside her workplace—○
Alerts for new members○○

Membership: ¥10,000 / month (tentative) · cancel anytime

Women can see when a man is on the free plan.

Look around free ›

VOICES

Imagine this

*These voices are fictional samples, created to show how the service works.

“I wrote 'long-term' from day one, so he never thought I was just doing my job. On our first date, we talked about our families, not about work.”
— Woman, 20s, Makati
“Back when I just kept visiting, it felt like I was always reading between the lines. Her profile said 'get to know each other first,' so there was no pressure. Three months in, she was the one who said, 'Let's be together.'”
— Man, 40s, Tokyo
“I have a daughter, so I want to keep working. I said that up front. The man I met already knew, and he was fine with it.”
— Woman, 20s, Manila

No more guessing. For either of you.

She writes it first.

He reads it first.

What he couldn't ask and she couldn't say, you'll both know before you meet.